Our reality is merely a projection of ourselves, filtered through our beliefs and perceptions of what is ‘real’. Practice compassion and understanding whenever you receive any sort of negativity (anger, jealousy, persecution) because this person’s battle is not with you, but with themselves. If they blame their state and situation on you this is an illusion, and you will not help them if you play along.
It would be so magical to have a world full of compassionate, understanding souls who help those suffering these battles through their emotions and fears, rather than meet an eye for an eye.
“LOVE your enemies and PRAY for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? BE PERFECT, therefore, as your heavenly father is perfect”
– From the man himself, Jesus (Matthew 5:43-48)